Fortune Cookie:
"And they told us, what they wanted... Was a sound that could kill some-one, from a distance." -- Kate Bush

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"It's getting late . . . How can I get out of this pig trap???"
Run for fun

Wisdom for Life

  1. Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
  2. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.
  3. Follow the three R's: Respect for self Respect for others Responsibility for all your actions.
  4. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.
  5. Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly.
  6. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
  7. When you realise you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
  8. Spend some time alone every day.
  9. Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values.
  10. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
  11. Live a good, honourable life. Then when you get older and think back, you'll be able to enjoy it a second time.
  12. A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life.
  13. In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don't bring up the past.
  14. Share your knowledge. It's a way to achieve immortality.
  15. Be gentle with the earth.
  16. Once a year, go some place you've never been before.
  17. Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.
  18. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.
  19. Don't be irreplaceable. If you can't be replaced, you can't be promoted.
  20. Always remember you're unique. Just like everyone else.
  21. Never test the depth of the water with both feet.
  22. Before you criticize someone, you should walk a mile in their shoes. That way, when you criticize them, you're a mile away and you have their shoes.
  23. If you lend someone $20, and never see that person again, it was probably worth it.
  24. Some days you are the bug, some days you are the windshield.
  25. Good judgment comes from bad experience, and a lot of that comes from bad judgment.
  26. Experience is something you don't get until just after you need it.
  27. Nothing so cold as closing the heart when all we need is to free the soul.
  28. You get what you get, you don't pick what you fit.
  29. Life is all about going back to your family at the end of day.
  30. As a man, nothing is better than having a daughter in his life.
  31. Be careful, though, not to spaghetti-code yourself out of a human-readable recipe.
  32. Happiness is not a result, but a cause - let it flow from you: such happiness will never fail to find its own very good reasons.
  33. Jesus saves. Buddah makes incremental backups. :)
  34. Everyday I think that people can't get any stupider, everyday I'm proven horribly wrong.
  35. When the going gets tough, the tough gets going.
  36. Not everything that counts can be counted, and not everything that can be counted counts.
  37. The only problem with troubleshooting is that sometimes trouble shoots back.
  38. When all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail.
  39. No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. (Eleanor Roosevelt)
  40. Persevere through the difficult patches, and better times are sure to come in time.
  41. Aspire to Inspire ... Before You Expire.
  42. Live Simply. Love Generously. Care Deeply. Speak Kindly, and leave the rest to God.
  43. Happiness keeps you sweet, trials keep you strong; Illness, losses and sorrows keep you human; Failures keep you humble, success keeps you growing, but only faith keeps you going.
  44. Life is short, Break the rules, Forgive quickly, Kiss slowly, Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably, Make your partner feel special, And never regret anything that made you smile.
  45. Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we're here we should dance.
  46. The only difference between a good day and a bad day is your attitude.
  47. What you do speaks so loud that I cannot hear what you say.
  48. Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace and gratitude.
  49. Love is an emotion experienced by the many and enjoyed by the few.
  50. It is only possible to live happily ever after on a day to day basis.
  51. Francis Crick: A busy life is a wasted life. (In spite of the almost ideal climate, scientists here seem to work hard. In fact, some of them work so hard that there is no time left for serious thinking)

Wisdom, Life, Love, and more . . .

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  1. 情如鱼水是夫妻双方最高的追求，但人们都容易犯一个错误，即总认为自己是水，而对方是鱼。
  2. 爱情就像是一盆面，你得揉啊；生活就是一张饼，既好看又要好吃；婚姻就是一锅粥，你得慢慢熬啊；老婆就是一盆咸菜，没有不行，多了你受不了.
  3. 男人从不担心他的未来，直到他找到一个妻子；女人常常担心她的未来，直到她找到一个丈夫。
  4. 男人长寿的秘诀：吃胃能消化的食物，娶自己能养活的女人。
  5. 夫妻俩过日子要像一双筷子：一是谁也离不开谁；二是什么酸甜苦辣都能在一起尝。
  6. 最完美的产品在广告里，最完美的人在悼词里，最完美的爱情在小说里，最完美的婚姻在梦境里。
  7. 人生就像一次旅行，不必在乎目的地，在乎的是沿途的风景和看风景的心情。
  8. 男人,简单点,幸福,才是男人.
  9. 树欲静而风不止，子欲养而亲不待!!!
  10. 岁月难得沉默 秋风厌倦漂泊，
    夕阳赖着不走 挂在墙头舍不得我；
    昔日伊人耳边话 已和潮声向东流，
    再回首 往事也随枫叶 一片片 飞落...
  11. 若要一辈子高兴：做佛；
    若要一阵子高兴：做官；
    若要一个人高兴：做梦；
    若要一家人高兴：做饭；
    若要一帮人高兴：做东；
    若要二个人高兴：做爱。
  12. 一山不能容二虎，除非一公和一母。
  13. 在家爱躺，出门爱党。我也就是脸比你们白，心跟你们一样黑。
  14. 原来:一杯茶,一包烟,开启QQ聊一天
    现在:不泡茶,不抽烟,立个瓶瓶盯一天
    早上摇一摇，精神百倍；晚上摇一摇，通宵不睡。
    专家叫蛤蟆不叫，可以一丝不挂地安心睡觉； 蛤蟆叫专家不叫，务必全副武装地预备逃跑。
    问玉帝最近这是咋了？玉帝说，不好意思我把地球调成震动了，这就去关。
  15. 生活就象出恭,你已经很努力了,可结果只是个屁!
  16. 点的是烟，抽的是寂寞。
  17. 错过才知道，原来爱情没有设门槛。
  18. 理学大师朱熹："存天理，灭人欲"
  19. 人们经常是不讲道理的，没为中心的，不管怎样，你要原谅他们。 (德兰修女)
  20. 即使你是友善的，人们可能还是会说你自私和动机不良，不管怎样，你还是要友善。 (德兰修女)
  21. 当你功成名就，你会有一些虚假的朋友和真实的敌人，不管怎样，你还是要取得成功。(德兰修女)
  22. 你耗费多年所营造的东西，有人将它毁于一旦，不管怎样，你还是要去营造。 (德兰修女)
  23. 最简单的事，犯错；最沉重的挫败，灰心；最大的缺点，坏脾气；最低劣的感觉，怨恨；最宝贵的礼物，宽恕；最愉悦的感觉，内心平静。(德兰修女)
  24. 如果你找到了平静和幸福，他们可能会嫉妒你，不管怎样，你还是要快乐。 (德兰修女)
  25. 有两种伟大的事物，我们越是经常越是执着地思考它们，我们心中就越是充满永远新鲜、有增无已的赞叹和敬畏，那就是我们头上的星空，我们心中的道德法则.
  26. 把你的影子加点盐，风干。
    老的时候，下酒。
  27. 心无城府才是最大的城府！
  28. 因美丽而成功的人很少，因成功而美丽的人比比皆是。
  29. 人永远不喜欢看起来比自己精明伶俐的人，"笨"一点，是获得世俗支持率的最佳加分点！
  30. 活在世上，有很多没能实现的愿望，是件幸福事，可以激励你更有盼头地活下去！
  31. 该哭的时候也能咬着牙笑。你可以说这是虚伪，但随着时光流转，你会渐渐发现，这一种虚伪叫做坚强。
  32. 爱是一种奇怪的东西，忽闪忽灭间的深刻，成长在彼此心里．最美丽的故事没有结局，最浪漫的感情没有归宿，最幸福的爱情没有言语，最深刻的喜欢没有空间！
  33. 逢人就点头：　智者先思后言，愚者先言后思。 智者嘴在心里，愚者心在嘴里。 智者利用时间，愚者消磨时光。 智者结交好友，愚者伴落后友。 智者赢得明天，愚者等待明天。­ 智者创造机会，愚者坐失良机。

Wisdom for Friendship and Relationship

  1. The best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person.
  2. When you're in love, it shows.
  3. Just one person saying to me, "You've made my day!" makes my day.
  4. Having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the most peaceful feelings in the world.
  5. Being kind is more important than being right.
  6. You should never say "no" to a gift from a child.
  7. I can always pray for someone when I don't have the strength to help him in some other way.
  8. No matter how serious your life requires you to be, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with.
  9. Sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.
  10. Simple walks with my father around the block on summer nights when I was a child did wonders for me as an adult.
  11. Life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.
  12. We should be glad God doesn't give us everything we ask for.
  13. Money doesn't buy class.
  14. It's those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.
  15. Under everyone's hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.
  16. The Lord didn't do it all in one day. What makes me think I can?
  17. To ignore the facts does not change the facts.
  18. When you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.
  19. Love, not time, heals all wounds.
  20. The easiest way for me to grow as a person is to surround myself with people smarter than I am.
  21. Everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile.
  22. There's nothing sweeter than sleeping with your babies and feeling their breath on your cheeks.
  23. No one is perfect until you fall in love with them.
  24. Life is tough, but I'm tougher.
  25. Opportunities are never lost; someone will take the ones you miss.
  26. When you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere.
  27. I wish I could have told my Dad that I love him one more time before he passed away.
  28. One should keep his words both soft and tender, because tomorrow he may have to eat them.
  29. A smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.
  30. I can't choose how I feel, but I can choose what I do about it.
  31. When your newly born child holds your little finger in his little fist, that you're hooked for life.
  32. Everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you're climbing it.
  33. It is best to give advice in only two circumstances; when it is requested and when it is a life threatening situation.
  34. The less time I have to work with, the more things I get done.
  35. A kind boss is the kind who is not lousy, bossy, but precise, to the point, makes sense quickly and let you go.
  36. Poem: The Greatest Gift (by Daisy) - "The greatest Gift, in the end was a family and a Friend. An ear to lend a hand to hold, and you, my Friend - your heart of gold."
  37. Every day will be Valentine's Day if you are with the right person
  38. When men talk to their friends, they insult each other. They don't really mean it. When women talk to their friends, they compliment each other. They don't really mean it.

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人生哲学

  1. 庄子曰：世之所贵道者，书也。书不过语，语有贵也。语之所贵者，意也，意之所随，不可以言传也。而世却贵言传书。世虽贵书，我犹不足贵也。为其贵非其贵也。此乃书不如思贵，意不可言传也。
  2. 放弃该放弃的是无奈，放弃不该放弃的是无能；不放弃该放弃的是无知，不放弃不该放弃的是执着。
  3. 请一定要有自信。你就是一道风景，没必要在别人风景里面仰视。
  4. 有些人说不出哪里好，但就是谁都替代不了！
  5. 所有的成功，都弥补不了家庭的失败。
  6. 在外面与朋友嬉游的时候，不要忘记家中孤独的老人。
  7. 不管多大多老，不管家人朋友怎幺催，都不要随便对待婚姻，婚姻不是打牌，重新洗牌要付出巨大代价。
  8. 感觉寂寞，只是因为你无所关注，无处付出。
  9. 人们总是在努力珍惜未得到的，而遗忘了所拥有的。
  10. 漂亮的脸孔是给别人看的，而有智慧的头脑才是给自己利用的。
  11. 放下爱恨，一切顺其自然。
  12. 乐观的人只顾著笑，而忘了怨；悲观的人只顾著怨，而忘了笑。
  13. 为他人尽力，即为自己尽力；不帮助他人的人，不能得到别人的帮助。
  14. 人在最悲痛，最恐慌的时候，并没有眼泪，眼泪永远都是流在故事的结尾，流在一切结束的时候！
  15. 不知道自己缺点的人，一辈子都不会想要改善。
  16. 每个人都有潜在的能量，只是很容易：被习惯所掩盖，被时间所迷离，被惰性所消磨。
  17. 勿满足于眼前的小小成就。你要问自己，我这辈子只有这样吗？
  18. 含蓄是一种美，也是对他人的一种尊重。
  19. 我们为了控制执著，必须观照好感觉的大门。
  20. 走路时，每跨一步，就如同把脚带到地面，我们要把快乐、祥和、宁静带到地面。
  21. 我们不小心跌倒时，不要急著爬起来，既然已经摔倒了，就在原地享受一下摔倒的滋味。
  22. 人的智慧并非来自研究伟大的学说，而是来自对平凡事物的观察。
  23. 真正止灭欲望后，生死束缚解开，随之而来的才是真正的平和。
  24. 死亡教会人一切，如同考试之后公布的结果。虽然恍然大悟，但为时晚矣！
  25. 向不同行业的人吸收新知。记住，要用请教的态度。
  26. 世界上有两种人可以得到快乐和幸福：一是修善不造罪的人，一是造罪知道忏悔的人。
  27. 你若流泪，先湿的是我的心。
  28. 安静的心是最高的品质，它是没有分界的，是完整的、纯洁无染的。它就是全神贯注、觉察力、爱和最高的智慧。
  29. 由于助人而受亲爱，由于柔和而有魅力，由于温和而为人所偏爱，由于有一切德而受尊重。
  30. 恨，能挑起争端，爱，能遮掩一切过错。
  31. 过去的事已经过去，从现在起如何自新，才真正要紧。
  32. 忍一时，争千秋。忍也是一种学习和磨练。
  33. 守护自己的人，也守护别人眼中的自己。
  34. 智慧的代价是矛盾。这是人生对人生观开的玩笑。
  35. 安莫安于知足；危莫危于多言；乐莫乐于好善；苦莫苦于多贪。
  36. 家庭是实现慈悲最基本的人伦组织。
  37. 如果敌人让你生气，那说明你还没有胜他的把握；如果朋友让你生气，那说明你仍然在意他的友情。
  38. 善境、逆境，常常就是陶铸圣贤的温床。
  39. 心，常想要抗拒改变、抗拒无常。
  40. 爱是以一种自然的礼物状态，自然来到，它是生灭相续，一执著，爱就死了。
  41. 过去的事已经过去，从现在起如何自新，才真正要紧。
  42. 用"时间"来看人。时间是让对方暴露本质的检验师。
  43. 人人存善念，并能日行一善，则个人、家庭、社会一定安乐祥和。
  44. 爱是一种残忍，只有在心中的天平上秤出自己在对方心中是否有爱的分量。
  45. 受到再大的打击，只要生命还在，请相信每天的太阳都是新的。
  46. 当我们感到痛苦时，想一想还有人比我们更痛苦；当我们感到快乐时，想一想还有人正在受苦，我们要把快乐的心转成帮助别人的心。
  47. 犯错，就诚实地认错。狡辨、诿过只会害了你自己。
  48. 人生是一场电影，痛苦是一个开端，挣扎是一种过程，死亡是一种结局。
  49. 无聊的时候，最好到户外走一走，最糟糕的是一直看电视。
  50. 这世上，有时笑笑人家，有时给别人笑笑自己，放轻松，给自己快乐，也给别人快乐。
  51. 人生短短几十年，不要给自己留下了什么遗憾，想笑就笑，想哭就哭，该爱的时候就去爱，无谓压抑自己。
  52. 学问之美，在与使人一头雾水；
    诗歌之美，在与煽动男女出轨；
    女人之美，在于蠢得无怨无悔；
    男人之美，在于说谎说得白天见鬼。
  53. 问世间晴为何物，不过一物降一物。
  54. 一百年前你不是你我不是我，一百年后没有你也没有我。

经典禅语

  1. 人之所以痛苦，在于追求错误的东西。
  2. 如果你不给自己烦恼，别人也永远不可能给你烦恼。因为你自己的内心，放不下。
  3. 感谢给你逆境的众生。
  4. 宽恕众生，不论他有多坏，甚至他伤害过你，你放得下，才能得到真正的快乐。
  5. 当你快乐时，你要想-－这快乐不是永恒的。当你痛苦时，你要想-－这痛苦也不是永恒。
  6. 今日的执着，会造成明日的后悔。
  7. 你可以拥有爱，但不要执着，因为分离是必然的。
  8. 不要浪费你的生命在你一定会后悔的地方上。
  9. 你什麽时候放下，什麽时候就没有烦恼。
  10. 每一种创伤，都是一种成熟。
  11. 狂妄的人有救，自卑的人没有救，认识自己，降伏自己，改变自己，才能改变别人。
  12. 不要一直不满人家，你应该检讨自己。不满人家，是苦了你自己。
  13. 一个人如果不能从内心去原谅别人，那他就永远不会心安理得。
  14. 心中装满着自己的看法与想法的人，永远听不见别人的心声。
  15. 毁灭人只要一句话，培植一个人却要千句话，请你多口下留情。
  16. 根本不必回头去看咒骂你的人是谁？如果有一条疯狗咬你一口，难道你也要趴下去反咬他一口吗？
  17. 永远不要浪费你的一分一秒，去想任何你不喜欢的人。
  18. 请你用慈悲心和温和的态度，把你的不满与委屈说出来，别人就容易接受。
  19. 同样的瓶子，你为什麽要装毒药呢？同样的心理，你为什麽要充满着烦恼呢？
  20. 得不到的东西，我们会一直以为他是美好的，那是因为你对他了解太少，没有时间与他相处在一 起。当有一天，你深入了解后，你会发现原不是你想像中的那麽美好。
  21. 活着一天，就是有福气，就该珍惜。当我哭泣我没有鞋子穿的时候，我发现有人却没有脚。
  22. 多一分心力去注意别人，就少一分心力反省自己。
  23. 憎恨别人，对自己是一种很大的损失。
  24. 每一个人都拥有生命，但并非每个人都懂得生命，所以要珍惜生命。不了解生命的人，生命对他来 说，是一种惩罚。
  25. 情执是苦恼的原因，放下情执，你才能得到自在。
  26. 不要太肯定自己的看法，可以减少后悔的机率。
  27. 当你对自己诚实的时候，世界上没有人能够欺骗得了你。
  28. 用伤害别人的手段来掩饰自己缺点的人，是可耻的。
  29. 默默的关怀与祝福别人，那是一种无形的布施。
  30. 不要刻意去猜测他人的想法，如果你没有智慧与经验的正确判断，通常都会有错误的。
  31. 要了解一个人，只需要看他的出发点与目的地是否相同，就可以知道他是否真心的。
  32. 人生的真理，只是藏在平淡无味之中。
  33. 原谅别人，就是给自己心中留下空间。
  34. 时间总会过去的，让时间流走你的烦恼吧！
  35. 硬要把单纯的事情看得很严重，痛苦的是自己。
  36. 永远扭曲别人善意的人，无药可救。
  37. 说一句谎话，要编造十句谎话来弥补，何苦呢？
  38. 白白的过一天，无所事事，就像犯了窃盗罪一样。
  39. 广结善缘，就是不要去伤害任何一个人。
  40. 沈默是毁谤最好的答复。
  41. 对人恭敬，就是在庄严你自己。
  42. 拥有一颗无私的爱心，便拥有了一切。
  43. 来是偶然的，走是必然的。所以你必须，随缘不变，不变随缘。
  44. 慈悲是你最好的武器。
  45. 只要面对现实，你才能超越现实。
  46. 良心是每一个人最公正的审判官，你骗得了别人，却永远骗不了自己的良心
  47. 不懂得自爱的人，是没有能力去爱别人的。
  48. 有时候我们要冷静问问自己，我们在追求什麽？我们活着为了什麽？
  49. 不要因为小小的争执，远离了你至亲的好友，也不要因为小小的怨恨，忘记了别人的大恩。
  50. 感谢上苍我所拥有的，也感谢上苍我所没有的。
  51. 凡是能站在别人的角度为他人着想，这个就是慈悲。
  52. 说话不要有攻击性，不要有杀伤力，不夸已能，不扬人恶，自然能化敌为友。
  53. 别人能骗你一时，而心却会骗你一辈子。
  54. 当你手中抓住一件东西不放时，你只能拥有这件东西，如果你肯放手，你就有机会选择。人的心若执着自己的观念，不肯放下，那麽他的智慧，也只能达到某种程度而已。
  55. 如果你能够平平安安的渡过一天，那就是一种福气了。多少人今天已经见不到明天的太阳，多少人今天已经成了残废，多少人今天已经失去了自由，多少人今天已经家破人亡。
  56. 你有你的生命观，我有我的生命观，我不干涉你。只要我能，我愿感化你。如果不能，那只有尊重。
  57. 你希望掌握永恒，那你必须控制现在。
  58. 恶口永远不要出自于我们的口中，不管他有多坏，有多恶。你愈骂他，你的心就被汙染了，你要转念去想，他是你的善知识。
  59. 别人可以违背因果，别人可以害我们，打我们，毁谤我们。可是我们不能因此而憎恨别人，为什麽？我们一定要保有一颗完整的本性和一颗清净的心。
  60. 如果一个人没有苦难的感受，就不容易对他人给予同情。我们要学救苦救难的精神，就得先受苦受难，所以遇到苦境只是人生的历练。
  61. 世界原本就不是属于你，因此你用不着抛弃，要抛弃的是一切的执着。万物皆为我所用，但非我所 属。
  62. 虽然我们不能改变周遭的世界，我们只好改变自己，用慈悲心和智慧心来面对这一切。
  63. 当我拿花送給別人時，首先闻到花香的是我们自己；当我们抓起泥巴想拋向別人時，首先弄脏的也是我们自己的手。
  64. 其实真理无庸多言，就像两点之间直线最短一样是常识。
  65. Life can only be understood backwards, but it must be lived forwards [悟及悟回首乃悟, 生及生勇往而生. 横批：方悟方生]
  66. 心不动，则不痛。—— 默默冉《余光》
  67. 让别人喜欢你的最好方法不是去帮助他们，而是让他们来帮助你。—— 本杰明·富兰克林效应
  68. 爱是一种奇怪的东西，忽闪忽灭间的深刻，成长在彼此心里。最美丽的故事没有结局，最浪漫的感情没有归宿，
  69. 最幸福的爱情没有言语，最深刻的喜欢没有空间。
  70. 我们很容易把正在遭遇的每一件事情都看得十分重要。然而，事过境迁，当我们回头看走过的路时便会发现，人生中真正重要的事情是不多的，它们奠定了我们的人生之路的基本走向，而其余的事情不过是路边的一些令人愉快或不愉快的小景物罢了。—— 周国平《论超脱》
  71. 两个男人追一个女人，用情浅的那个先放弃；两个女人追一个男人，用情深的那个先放弃。
  72. 调情可成恋爱，模仿引进创造，附庸风雅会养成内行的鉴赏，世上不少真货色都是从冒牌货起家的。—— 钱钟书《写在人生边上》
  73. 所有随风而逝的都属于昨天的，所有历经风雨留下来的才是面向未来的。——《飘》
  74. 有时候，顺其自然，你才会知道那些事是否值得拥有。
  75. 事业的最高境界：家人想你，单位念你。
    荣誉的最高境界：你已远离江湖，江湖还在传说你。
    喝酒的最高境界：你还知道他是谁，他却不知道你是谁。
    生命的最高境界：哭着来，笑着走。
    交友的最高境界：久不联系，常在心中。
  76. 细节决定成败. 性格决定命运. 学历代表过去、能力代表现在、学习力代表未来
  77. 犹太文明像油，伊斯兰文明像奶，基督文明像酒，中华文明像水. 商周时期是用眼睛看世界，春秋时期是用头脑看世界，汉唐时期是用心胸看世界，宋元有心无胸，明到了裤裆，清就到了膝盖 -- 易中天

Lastly, a wisdom on aging ...

A wisdom on aging ...

Humor

    幽默

Lastly, see what Bible says . . .

    love and merriage
    1. It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him. (Gen 2.18)
    2. Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice with the wife of your youth. As a loving deer and a graceful doe, let her breasts satisfy you at all times; and always be enraptured with her love. (Prov 5.18-19)
    3. "Be fruitful and multiply" (Gen 1.28)
    4. "For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh." Genesis 2:24
    5. "If it is disagreeable in your sight to serve the LORD, choose for yourselves today whom you will serve: whether the gods which your fathers served which were beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites in whose land you are living; but as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD." Joshua 24:15
    6. "I will give heed to the blameless way. When will You come to me? I will walk within my house in the integrity of my heart." Psalms 101:2
    7. "Trust in the LORD with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight." Proverbs 3:5-6
    8. "Hatred stirs up strife, but love covers all transgressions." Proverbs 10:12
    9. "Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfillment of the law." Romans 13:10
    10. "Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you." Ephesians 4:31-32
    11. Nevertheless, each individual among you also is to love his own wife even as himself, and the wife must see to it that she respects her husband." Ephesians 5:21-33
    12. "Since you have in obedience to the truth purified your souls for a sincere love of the brethren, fervently love one another from the heart." Peter 1:22
    13. Do you know you have asked for the costliest thing
      Ever made by the Hand above?
      A woman's heart, and a woman's life --
      And a woman's wonderful love.
    14. Do you know you have asked for this priceless thing
      As a child might ask for a toy?
      Demanding what others have died to win,
      With the reckless dash of a boy.
    15. Say I'm weary, say I'm sad;
      Say that health and wealth have missed me;
      Say I'm growing old but add ---
      I love you
    16. Genesis 29:20 So Jacob worked seven years to pay for Rachel. But his love for her was so strong that it seemed to him but a few days.
    17. Proverbs 5:19 A loving doe, a graceful deer -- may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be captivated by her love.
    18. Proverbs 10:12 Hatred stirs up dissension, but love covers over all wrongs.
    19. Proverbs 13:24 Those who love their children care enough to discipline them.
    20. Proverbs 15:17 A bowl of vegetables with someone you love is better than steak with someone you hate.
    21. Proverbs 17:9 Love prospers when a fault is forgiven, but dwelling on it separates close friends.
    22. Proverbs 17:17 A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.
    23. Proverbs 30:18-19 There are three things that amaze me--
      no, four things that I don't understand:
      how an eagle glides through the sky,
      how a snake slithers on a rock,
      how a ship navigates the ocean,
      how a man loves a woman.
    24. Song of Solomon 8:7 Many waters cannot quench love; rivers cannot wash it away. If one were to give all the wealth of his house for love, it would be utterly scorned.
    25. John 15:13 Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends.
    26. Corinthians 13:1-8a and 13 If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.
    27. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
    28. Love never fails....And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
    29. Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.
    30. Ephesians 5:33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
    31. Colossians 3:14 And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.
    32. Peter 4:8 Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.
    33. John 3:16 This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers.
    34. John 3:18 Dear children, let us not love with words or tongue but with actions and in truth.
    35. John 4:8 Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.
    36. John 4:18 There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.
    37. Hebrews chapter 13 Give honor to marriage, and remain faithful to one another in marriage. God will surely judge people who are immoral and those who commit adultery.